TBT…

From an old friend via the mil-email string…

Occasionally, I venture back to NAS, Meridian, where I’m greeted by an
imposing security guard who looks carefully at my identification card, hands
it back and says, “Have a good day, Master Chief”.   

Every time I go back to any Navy Base it feels good to be called by my
previous rank, but odd to be in civilian clothes, walking among the
servicemen and servicewomen going about their duties as I once did, many
years ago.   

The military is a comfort zone for anyone who has ever worn the uniform.
It’s a place where you know the rules and know they are enforced – a place
where everybody is busy, but not too busy to take care of business.   

Because there exists behind the gates of every military facility an
institutional understanding of respect, order, uniformity, accountability
and dedication that becomes part of your marrow and never, ever leaves you.

Personally, I miss the fact that you always knew where you stood in the
military, and who you were dealing with.   That’s because you could read
somebody’s uniform from 20 feet away and know the score.   

Service personnel wear their careers on their sleeves, so to speak. When you
approach each other, you can read their name tag, examine their rank and, if
they are in dress uniform, read their ribbons and know where they’ve served.
I miss all those little things you take for granted when you’re in the
ranks, like breaking starch on a set of fatigues fresh from the laundry and
standing in a perfectly straight line military formation that looks like a
mirror as it stretches to the endless horizon.   

I miss the sight of troops marching in the early morning mist, the sound of
boot heels thumping in unison on the tarmac, the bark of drill instructors
and the sing-song answers from the squads as they pass by in review.   

To romanticize military service is to be far removed from its reality,
because it’s very serious business — especially in times of war.   

But I miss the salutes I’d throw at officers and the crisp returns as we
criss-crossed with a “by your leave sir”.   

I miss the smell of jet fuel hanging heavily on the night air and the sound
of engines roaring down runways and disappearing into the clouds.  The same
While on carrier duty. 

I even miss the hurry-up-and-wait mentality that enlisted men gripe about
constantly, a masterful invention that bonded people more than they’ll ever
know or admit.   

I miss people taking off their hats when they enter a building, speaking
directly and clearly to others and never showing disrespect for rank, race,
religion or gender.   

Mostly, I miss being a small cog in a machine so complex it constantly
circumnavigates the Earth and so simple it feeds everyone on time, three
times a day, on the ground, in the air or at sea.   

Mostly, I don’t know anyone who has served who regrets it, and doesn’t feel
a sense of pride when they pass through those gates and re-enter the world
they left behind with their youth.  

I wish I could express my thoughts as well about something I loved — and
hated sometimes.  

Face it folks – we all miss it…Whether you had one tour or a career, it
shaped our lives.

h/t Frito

Comments

TBT… — 17 Comments

  1. I definitely miss it. While I can’t say I miss the pay, it was sufficient to my needs.

    But the camaraderie, the esprit de corps, knowing who is who and what is what? Yeah, almost completely missing from my little piece of the civilian world.

  2. There’s no going back, is there? I was at North Island the other day having lunch with old friends and all of us are a bit long in the tooth. We all laugh at the same memories, all have a few scars, all endured great adversity together. “We few, we happy few, we band of brothers.”

  3. “Face it folks – we all miss it…Whether you had one tour or a career, it shaped our lives.”

    Truer words were never written. And one more: my daughters still don’t quite get why I dim the lights & turn down the TV – or hit the sack – at 2200 hrs.

  4. Well said. It’s been a while, but I well remember all those things.

  5. Yeah, like I miss he chipping and painting and sweeping and swabbing and chipping and painting and, did I say painting? Liked being at sea and different ports, but… I hate painting to this day.

    • Painting. Even now I do not paint, my wife was and is, unhappy with the engineroom technique of dipping the entire roller into a five gallon bucket, then drizzling paint across the deck (floor), then apply the paint by running the roller randomly and as fast as you can so the paint flings everywhere. After that is done, have someone else clean up.

      Fixing things is a different story. My well honed and practiced OCD is to fix it right, the only exceptions being emergent repairs. And even after those, fixing it right is a high priority.

      Yes, as your other posters said, I miss the good parts.

      John in Philly

  6. I remember the clanking of the halyards against the Marine Corps Recruit Depot flag pole on Sunday mornings. I can hear that sound now and have flashbacks to those times.

  7. I miss the leadership and structure.
    I’m a manager now and I was trying to explain the difference between leadership and management to my manager.
    I used the military as an example to be mimicked and he responded that military leadership is based on fear.
    Sheesh. We had further discussion.

  8. My Dad retired as a CW2 after 20 years in the Army. One of my favorite memories was when I was 17, walking with him on base, and having to suppress the urge to join him in saluting! Being a Warrant, he always had to either give or return a salute.

  9. I also miss a lot of the things I partook of while doing my twenty but going to sea was not one of them, having been raised on a 26 ‘ fishing boat, nor the reason I joined the Navy in the first place. That particular thing was those big old round motors that talked to me like a lover in the throes of ecstasy! It is love that I hold dear to this day. Being almost deaf, I can still hear that low rumble from a long way out, and it draws me away from whatever I am doing!! Sigh, BiG SIGH!

  10. Hey Old NFO;

    You are correct, I miss my service time…and if I could I would go back. The comradeship you can’t get in the civilian world…we have a bond that few understand and only us that have served do recognize and understand the feeling.

  11. I miss going to sea , I miss the roll of the deck under my feet, I miss watching the shore slowly disappear as we leave port, I miss the solitude of being at sea.

  12. “I wish I could express my thoughts as well about something I loved — and
    hated sometimes.”

    I think you just did 🙂

  13. I was USN from 1972 – 79.

    Regret it? No. I have never regretted it. It did indeed shape my life. It gave me the work ethic that has sustained me to this very day.

    Though I rarely visit a military base anymore, I always feel a sense of pride anytime veterans are singled out. Like this morning in church when our pastor asked for all veterans to stand to be recognized. (I am a bit surprised how few men in our congregation of about 200 stood.)

    Miss it? No, I don’t miss it. I think time acts as a sort of high-pass filter. As time passes we tend to remember the good times and forget the bad. We forget the endless chipping and painting, the messcooking, the assholes and martinets that we encountered almost daily, and the seemingly endless boredom.

    At seven years, I had to make a decision. Reenlisting would have put me over ten, and as I saw it, past the point of no return. Was this military life – a Navy life – really for me? And for me, the answer was no. So I got out.

    I have never regretted my time in the military, but I have also never regretted my decision to leave when I did.

    I have nothing but the utmost respect for those who stuck it out and made it a career and then retired.